Paul_O wrote:When you are still young, it is better to take your time
You are right about that, Paul. There is no need to be hasty with this decision. Have some time for yourself, before you dedicate yourself to the child. I do not know any people though, who would complain about their decision to have a baby too early. But I think that there are people who do have such thoughts. There is nothing bad in that, it was worth of it anyway. But their decision could be more ...correct, if they would wait a little bit more. So if your boyfriend says tat he is not ready yet, I think that you should wait. Even if he says that he will never want kids, do not think that is is his final decision. It may change in a year or so. Time will tell.