Hello everybody! If you do not mind, I want to talk to you about a very sensitive situation. One of my friends has a child. They used the adoption procedure a few years ago. But when they adopted him, he was old enough. And now he's a teenager. Perhaps you are aware of the many problems with teens their age. But in any case, this is not the worst thing that could happen. My friend told me that once, when he came to his room, he saw his son masturbating. He thinks his son is still too small for such things. And now he's really worried about how masturbation can influence his young body. The guys who have experience in such things? Maybe someone watched a TV show or read about it?
The specific harm from masturbation in adolescence there, and this is proved by some scientists. Energy designed for the development of a young body of a teenager should be used for its development. instead, it is simply discarded during masturbation. Permanent employment masturbation - substitute for sexual intercourse with a potential partner. This impoverishes the emotional and sensual sphere of a person and can lead to complexes and psychological abnormalities. Masturbation in adolescence often does not end with the maturation and in some cases can last for years. The constant irritation of the genitals during the act of self-satisfaction can eventually cause problems with potency.
An important factor in the etiology of impotence is masturbation in adolescents. It would seem that the abuse of masturbation in their harmful effects on the body differs little from the sexual excesses. In fact, there are several features that distinguish onanism from normal sexual intercourse and aggravate its harmful effects on the nervous system and sexual function. The difference between masturbation from normal sexual intercourse is primarily in the heavy impact that has on the psyche of onanism and the state of mind of a teenager. This is facilitated by the fear of "fatal" consequences of masturbation, which is important in the development of impotence is much exaggerated in the population, a constant struggle between reason and attraction to this vice.
The damage due to teenage masturbation is excessive abuse them because of the greater availability of it compared with intercourse. If the repetition of the sexual act is often impossible due to the disappearance of erection, masturbation is possible with sluggish or incomplete erection. Harm masturbatory excesses is exacerbated by the fact that this vice is often begin to indulge in it at a young age, sometimes even before the full maturity, he has on the body and nervous system of a teenager more harmful effect than the sexual excesses during the period of puberty. Also important is the fact that during the masturbatory act of erection and ejaculation are caused largely by local irritation.
I think it can be really bad for a teenager. There are no mental impressions, visual, tactile, and other strong emotions, erotic acts during sexual intercourse and transmitted spinal reflex centers of erection and ejaculation. Therefore, spinal centers imposed far greater demands than normal intercourse. When masturbation abuse, these centers are maintained in a state of heightened, abnormal irritation, followed by a functional exhaustion, accompanied by the weakening of erection. Masturbatory excesses can cause a number of local disturbances from the posterior urethra, spermatic tubercle and the prostate gland, which is due to a persistent vasodilatation and a violation of their tone.
Masturbation is harmful when a teenager repeats it too often, several times a day, for a long time. Moderate masturbation, which often occurs in young adulthood, usually has no adverse effect on sexual ability. Sexual impotence, developing on the basis of moderate masturbation, depends mainly on the mental effects caused by fear of the consequences of masturbation, different from impotence caused by masturbatory excesses that lead to exhaustion and degeneration of the spinal centers. Value of masturbation as a cause of impotence is psychological in the fact that when it is engaged in a long time, from the early years, there is a wrong formation of superstructures of conditioned reflex of a sexual nature.
As a result, normal sexual stimulation, emanating from a woman (or man), are for the usual masturbanta insufficient stimulus and do not cause him sexual arousal. Masturbation at an early age before puberty does not affect the psyche of the child, but to a certain period. This is usually during puberty, but sometimes earlier. In this momnt formed psychology of behavior. Manifestations may be ekzgibitsionizm later homosexuality, pedophilia, voyeurism, desire extraordinary sexual experience, such as bestiality, sex with a transsexual, and more. In most cases, if the child does not hurt on this subject, all ends well. So I think that this problem can have a negative impact only in some cases.
Fingering, including teenagers, does not represent any danger: not for medical, not psychological indicators. However, due to low psychological culture of people, including parents, and their lack of knowledge about sexual development and sexual education of children, many an opinion about the dangers of masturbation in adolescents. The teenage masturbation is a common practice of sexual behavior during puberty and continues usually until the normal sexual intercourse. Some parents, in effect preserved from their adolescence prohibitions, stereotypes and fears about masturbation and its consequences, there is undue anxiety, bewilderment and confusion, some neurotic reaction when they learn that their child-teen masturbates.
The problem may be that your parents' neurotic fears and prejudices will be passed, and the child, who is still violating the ban will continue to masturbate and feel fear ... which can lead to neuroses and worsening of relations and understanding, both within the family and in society ... and you need to take it normally, naturally and safely, not only condemning the word, but not showing conviction in their appearance: emotions, facial expressions, postures, gestures. Better on the contrary, in every possible way to encourage and support the teenager by said, directly or indirectly (as if about third parties) that masturbation - this is normal, and many are engaged in masturbation in adolescence, as in the animal world - is generally quite common ...
During masturbation sexual arousal and orgasm achieved by mechanical stimulation of the genitals by hand, a strong jet shower, rubbing of clothes. The species in question is similar to the use of special vibrators. Masturbation usually associated with sexual fantasies, memories of seen pornographic films or photographs, erotic scenes from the books or movies. Most often, teenagers start to masturbate when they begin to form sexual desire at night having erotic dreams and wet dreams. With the beginning of a regular masturbation, erotic dreams disappear as wet dreams - is relieve the body of accumulated semen. If the sperm is released as a result of masturbation, nocturnal emissions is missing.
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