In adolescence, masturbation - a frequent phenomenon. According adolescent psychiatrists, from 80 to 90% of adolescent boys before the start of sexual activity engaged in masturbation, from one to several times a day, and some teens masturbate is not alone, but mutually with their peers. Up to 50-60% of adolescent girls and boys at least once in a lifetime trying to masturbate. Since the beginning of normal sexual life masturbation can pass if the sexual life is regular. But in some cases, when the intensity of the sexual life is not satisfactory, when the breaks in normal sexual relations possible resumption of masturbation.
Masturbation is considered abnormal if it is too frequent (more than once a day) or when it is preferred to normal sexual life with regular opportunities to have sexual intercourse (if it is considered perversion), or when masturbation is carried out very sophisticated way, for example, the introduction of foreign bodies into the rectum or urethra, which may cause damage. If masturbation is not combined with any behavioral problems that require correction and suggestive of mental illness, the parents should treat it safely. It is best to explain to the boy that this is the result of the emerging sexual desire, which she in age yet can not be implemented with the help of sexual intercourse that with time this will pass when he meets a permanent sexual partner, and sensations for normal sexual intercourse will be much more enjoyable than for masturbation.
Probably no one parent do not want their son to start a sex life when sexual development is not yet completed. Prohibitions masturbate, never lead to any positive result. A boy finds a time and place when you can not control him, for example, in the bathroom, the toilet in the dark entrance. Penalties parents almost never help rid the boy of the habit of wank. And even worse, when parents begin to intimidate the boy that if he will masturbate, that would be a moron or not be able to live a normal sexual life. Firstly, this is not true, and, secondly, can lead to undesirable consequences. It is better to leave this situation in this way.
It is widespread among adolescents. It is believed that at least 70% of boys and 15-20% of girls after the age of 14 regularly engaged in masturbation. This is mainly due to the bio-social disharmony - the awakening of desire and sexual activity at a time when the individual has not reached the social maturity. Most Masturbates teenagers, spoiled abundant food, especially - who use excessively hot spices, pickles, smoked foods, overeating and abusing drink at night. If this is done from time to time, not transformed into a systematic need, health hazards and normal neuropsychological development there. I think that your friends should not worry too much about it.
I think this is quite a serious matter. In addition, I believe that it is not the best way for any child to adulthood. The reason for masturbation may be non-compliance with basic hygiene rules. Accumulation of smegma, urine residues and their decomposition under the foreskin of the penis causes itching in the vulva. Touching the site of stimulation delivers teen fun and provokes masturbation. The latter is most often done by hand or with the help of an object, and the excitement caused by visual observation or imagination erotic scenes or pictures. The best way to deal with this, it is the easiest dialogue with the child.
The harm of masturbation in adolescence that excessive masturbation session (once a day) is a long stagnation of venous blood in the pelvic organs, causing inflammation develops in the prostate gland and seminal vesicles. Immoderate masturbation quickly leads to physical and nervous exhaustion teenagers. To prevent such complications parents must explain to the child in the 7-10 years the meaning and significance of sexual life, and The record conversation can prevent masturbation. The highest value in the prevention of a physical education: physical education, physical labor, water treatments: a cool shower in the morning and before bedtime.
Teen grows and develops. Under the influence of powerful hormones, he begins to feel a strong sexual desire, and sexual organs produce a very pleasant sensation. By stimulating the genitals, he is excited and begins to experience an orgasm. A teenager can sometimes strongly excited only at the thought of sex. Now it becomes clear that this is a conscious masturbation stimulation of erogenous zones to achieve orgasm. Sexual arousal in boys may occur even feelings because of some trouble. This is because the nervous system is at this age are very sensitive. After a night a teenager can wake up excited because of sperm accumulation.
I think that children should not be engaged in masturbation in any case, even if they are already in their teens. It is important to understand that in the initial stages it will not bring any difficulties. But in any case, children may have a negative effect some time later, during adulthood. Masturbation is also corrupt thought. Handjob begins to treat your body as an object for sexual pleasure. Such a person is completely absorbed by his feelings and engaged himself. As a result, he suffered further sexual life in marriage. Sex is not converted into love, and in reflex, eases tension. I think that first of all it brings psychological problems.
Many adults in the pursuit of pleasure do not think about the possible negative consequences. What can we say about teenagers who are just beginning to know my body, yet to know firsthand what sex and, especially, do not know if masturbation is harmful. The teenager, who is just beginning to learn your body, in no case should not think that what he does is something dirty, shameful and forbidden. Parents who have chosen themselves and shaming tactics to frighten the child should understand that, most likely, as an adult, their son will face complexes and self-doubt. Masturbation - is a natural phenomenon, which is within the normal range will not bring any harm.
It is very important to help the teenager to know masturbation is a normal part of his sexual development. Almost all the boys and girls are in my life this stage. Studies show that up to 18 years have been intimately familiar with masturbation 80% of men and 60% women. But at the same time it is a private affair of a teenager, so it is only to decide whether or not to masturbate. At the same time it is important that it is understood that it will be a normal person anyway, masturbation will be present in his life or not. Adolescence is full of emotion bursts, periodic depression and stress, and masturbation makes it possible to facilitate such a stressful state of the organism.
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