Teens onanism

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Robert » Mon May 30, 2016 2:55 pm

In fact, there are several features that distinguish onanism from normal sexual intercourse and aggravate its harmful effects on the nervous system and sexual function. The difference between masturbation from normal sexual intercourse is primarily in the heavy impact that has on the psyche of onanism and the state of mind of a teenager.
This is facilitated by the fear of "fatal" consequences of masturbation, which is important in the development of impotence is much exaggerated in the population, a constant struggle between reason and attraction to this vice.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Ron » Mon May 30, 2016 4:55 pm

You know masturbation is considered abnormal if it is too frequent or when it is preferred to normal sexual life with regular opportunities to have sexual intercourse , or when masturbation is carried out very sophisticated way, for example, the introduction of foreign bodies into the rectum or urethra, which may cause damage. If masturbation is not combined with any behavioral problems that require correction and suggestive of mental illness, the parents should treat it safely. It is best to explain to the boy that this is the result of the emerging sexual desire, which she in age yet can not be implemented with the help of sexual intercourse.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Alex5 » Mon May 30, 2016 9:53 pm

As for me no one parent do not want their son to start a sex life when sexual development is not yet completed. Prohibitions masturbate, never lead to any positive result. A boy finds a time and place when you can not control him, for example, in the bathroom, the toilet in the dark entrance. Penalties parents almost never help rid the boy of the habit of wank. And even worse, when parents begin to intimidate the boy that if he will masturbate, that would be a moron or not be able to live a normal sexual life. Firstly, this is not true, and, secondly, can lead to undesirable consequences.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Kolin » Tue May 31, 2016 4:18 am

There are no mental impressions, visual, tactile, and other strong emotions, erotic acts during sexual intercourse and transmitted spinal reflex centers of erection and ejaculation. Therefore, spinal centers imposed far greater demands than normal intercourse. When masturbation abuse, these centers are maintained in a state of heightened, abnormal irritation, followed by a functional exhaustion, accompanied by the weakening of erection. Masturbatory excesses can cause a number of local disturbances from the posterior urethra, spermatic tubercle and the prostate gland, which is due to a persistent vasodilatation and a violation of their tone.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Tomy » Tue Jul 12, 2016 1:39 pm

Personally I don’t know how to behave if I get in the same situation as this dad. I understand that it is like normal process of sexual development, but still it is an awkward moment, you know. I think I will leave this situation without any discussion. To my opinion it is better not to give too much attention to this and everything will be alright with time.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Andreas_Maroon » Wed Jul 13, 2016 11:09 am

Hey Barboro! you say that kid was old enough when they adopted him. How old was he - that is the main question? Lets be honest with ourselves - everyone did that , masturbation I mean - in some age.. some were older, some were younger. That is quite normal thing - that is scientifically proved actually. the body grows - and starts to have new functions. If your friends are really that worried about this matter - they should show a kid to the sexologist, or to any other specialist for that matter in this age, there are lot of them. As for me, I would not really be worried about that. that is not something abnormal. just give the kid a rest and not make him shy of his body)

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Robb » Tue Jul 19, 2016 1:31 pm

your friend is not the alone with this problem, a lot of parents face it and for them it is very serious. i do not think that it is actually a problem because your friend can not influence it. it is not the thing that you may stop doing. if he does then he wants it. the first thing he may do is talking with his son. i m not sure whether it will help but has to explain that it is too early to start doing such things and it is better not to hurt his young body. my friend visited phycologist with their son in order to get rid of this problem.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby florian » Wed Aug 03, 2016 1:31 pm

Hi to all! As I'm not mistaken almost every boy did it. There is nothing bad in it. Teens sexuality is growing and he doesn't have sex. They are trying to understand themselves and their body. When he stars to have a regular sex, this problem will cut off. It may become a problem when guy do it even when his is grown-up.

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Easton » Sun Aug 14, 2016 6:52 pm

yes personally i think that we all have faced this problem. i remember myself when i was a teenager i also did it but my parents did not about it, i hope. but i am sure now that ii did not do any harm to my body. first fo all i think that your friend shall consult the phycologist and he will advise anything. it is not easy to explain to your child that it i not right and it may be really very harmful for him. even if you tell him , he may not listen to you. he may do everything he wants and that is it. if your friend thinks that it is the problem then he definitely has to find the way to solve it. ;) ;)

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Re: Teens onanism

Postby Archer » Thu Sep 01, 2016 4:56 pm

i am not a parent yet and honestly i cannot even imagine how to deal with this problem and if this is a problem at all :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: Cause like some of you said here, we al did it.. however those were we - and these are our kids, so.. Perhaps we have to find out some way out of this situation, to tak.. or ... well i do not know, sorry :roll: :roll: :roll:

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