Is it safe???

V_Vegas
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Re: Is it safe???

Postby V_Vegas » Tue May 09, 2017 12:59 pm

Yes - the lie for the good purpose does exist.. Though in many cases that is only the disguise for the lies for your own profit you know - and often people who do tell those lies do not even notice what they are doing.. That is the most subtle and vicious manifestation of the egoism. Any way - to tell the lies when that is needed to - this is the skill that all the people in the modern world do have to posses - more or less. and non of the people here on the forum is an exception from that rule. I am sure that if for some reason all people would start to tell each other their real thoughts - that would lead to really bad consequences.

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Ben_Roar » Wed May 10, 2017 7:36 pm

I do agree with the last statement, Vegas.. I was thinking of the probable scenarios as well - and that draw pretty bad pictures in front of my inner sight.. Wow - that did sound cool - I'll write it down not to forget..)) So I was thinking also that it is not about what does the person think - but how does that person deal with that kind of thoughts.. i think that many people do have really bad thoughts in their heads from time to time. .The thing is - how do they deal with those- and way do they act.. If they are able to control themselves - then they can not be called bad people..

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Miles » Sat May 13, 2017 10:06 pm

Vegas - sometimes I do have the wish to be able to tell what does the person think about. And I am neither a professional gambler - nor the lawyer) Though I am sure that if that would be possible to transmit the nerve signals of that person to my brain - I would not understand anything) Because since we are all different - we do have different personalities, different memories and impressions - our brains do work differently, they are speaking in different languages. And while some basic things are the same there- the nuances are different - and those are crucial for the understanding of each other.

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Paul_O » Sun May 14, 2017 7:34 pm

guys - this topic starts to remind me of the scientific council) We do not read each other's thoughts - and I think that there is a good reason for that, you know.. We did get the certain means of communication from nature - and there are lot of them - the speech, sounds, the gestures, mimics, even the smells.. And I think that is quite enough for us.. What is happening in the person's head - should remain there, as for me.. That is the private territory - the last refugee, actually. can you imagine if people would be deprived of it? then they would not have anywhere to hide.. the level of suicides would certainly raise.

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Miles » Wed May 17, 2017 7:38 pm

Paul - yes, sorry - it does seem that we did find each other here - I just love to speculate on that kind of subjects - what is going to happen if) - especially if we are speaking about the future. Though - as for the practical application of the ability to read someone's mind.. I am sure that sometimes it would be a really nice skill to posses! for example in my situation that I do have right now.. You do remember that we are about to move to York soon.. and I was there for several times already.. I did have a strange situation with our neighbours there. .and i think that I could solve it much easier - if I would know their real thoughts.

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Andreas_Maroon » Fri May 19, 2017 7:43 pm

Miles - that does sound intriguing - may be you are going to share that story with us here?:) i know that you did that on purpose. .you would be good in making the detective series - they do have the intrigue as well )So what was that with the neighbours? I hope they are not going to become the pain in the ass for you - you are going to be busy enough there for dealing with some annoying neighbours in addition to that, as for me) as for my neighbours - we did use to each other.. and now , when we are about to move - I wonder if they are going to miss us.. So many years being behind the wall for each other))

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby JaredJey » Sat May 20, 2017 7:10 am

Hi, I believe that this is a very complex topic. Only you can know what you need baby. I think you need to listen to your heart. Need to know how a child reacts to the journey. I think a better plane because it is fast and convenient! The car is very difficult, and long. Riding on the plane will quickly get. ;)

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby V_Vegas » Sun May 21, 2017 6:48 pm

Andreas - as you remember - we are moving too pretty soon.. Though it is another story with the neighbours.. i am living in this apartment for six years already - and I did have really good relations with several people from my building.. Though - for one reason or another - they did leave one by one during the last two years.. And the new people that did come on their place - for some reason I did not experience the same chemistry with them.. So no one is going to miss me - and I am not going to miss anyone as well - all is fine with this) Miles - just tell the damn story, God pound you))

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Ben_Roar » Tue May 23, 2017 7:43 pm

Vegas - as for me - for the person , who was living all it;s life in the houses - I can not even imagine how you can stand that - living in the tiny apartment.. and I am sure that most of the apartments are tiny in comparison to the real house) I remember my experience living in the apartment building when I was studying in Oxford. I was really unlucky - because there are only several apartment buildings there - and all the normal students were renting houses - by groups of three or four people. and it was a really miserable experience for me.. It is tight, noisy - and generally not cosy...

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Re: Is it safe???

Postby Miles » Wed May 24, 2017 11:22 am

The same thing with me , Ben) When my husband was offered to move - that was one of the main condition - that we are going to live in the separate house.. Well - if he would ask me first - I would tell him that it would be pretty strange if they would offer us the apartment building in York - since there are almost none of them there - as far as I remember) In any case - I was glad that he did ask for this - because that was the thing that he would only ask for because of me) We are going to start living there in four days.. Now I have the feeling that I am already missing this house here in Bristol))


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