big family

Tally
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Re: big family

Postby Tally » Mon Nov 14, 2016 7:53 pm

I think that thi si svery important to gather for the one dinner table and communicat with the each other. Families should be encouraged to make the family meal more of a priority and to try to have at least four family meals per week. It is often easiest for families to eat dinner together, but other mealtimes work as well. Meals can be simple with shared mealtime responsibility among family members. Teaching children the enjoyment of cooking and having them involved in mealtime preparation develop skills they can use for a lifetime. Shared meals can also be extended to friends and neighbors to build a stronger sense of community and help with meal preparation.

eliot
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Re: big family

Postby eliot » Tue Nov 15, 2016 2:55 pm

Child psychiatrists insist that much more psychological problems and difficulties in communicating with other children there is the only child in the family, having brothers and sisters. These children often feel lonely, invent imaginary friends. If the child is not someone to talk to, he begins to develop the habit to apply to himself. He can conduct a dialogue out loud with her invisible friend, to make up for the lack of communication with peers.

eliot
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Re: big family

Postby eliot » Tue Nov 15, 2016 2:58 pm

The only child is often withdrawn, very shy. It was harder for him to adapt to the changes, such as moving or going to a new school able to drive the child in a severe state of stress, to force him to experience psychological or moral suffering. In a large family of attention deficit can not be simply. Children constantly communicate with each other, play together and flourish. Younger look to the older, trying not to give them so they begin to go on the potty, trying to learn to read, write and count. In a large family of children motivate each other.

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Re: big family

Postby eliot » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:00 pm

Older brothers and sisters always delighted to meet appearance in the house of a new family member. Who doesn't want to sit next to tiny brother or to help the father to wear a nice dress for his little sister? Small children in the house is always fun, noise and a complete absence of boredom and monotony! :lol: :x

mr.natty
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Re: big family

Postby mr.natty » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:19 pm

The large family has many advantages, they are much more than difficulties. And I will certainly describe below. But there are downsides. And I don't want to pretend that it is not. So let's start with them.
1. The food is over instantly. Especially the vegetarians, because fresh fruits and vegetables cannot be stored for a long time. Well, and consumed it all in a jiffy. In the store every day or every other day. The husband is always in shock, where has it all gone.

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Re: big family

Postby mr.natty » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:20 pm

It is impossible to always satisfy everyone. With one and even two children it is easy to find compromises and make everyone happy always. And if the kids are three, four, five and more? There is always someone happy, someone not. And it's not a tragedy, it's the norm. The main thing that angry face changed, and not always the same.

mr.natty
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Re: big family

Postby mr.natty » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:28 pm

We need to change the tools to change ourselves . One child can pass each other, like a banner. Two children can be divided, one in each hand. But three? Four? Need to change all their ways of influencing children. So, to change inside.
More strictly you need to set the boundaries of own time. When you have one child and he is sleeping — it's your time. And when the three of them, and one sleeping, and two not? Or two sleeping, and one not? Whose this time then?+
Find the opportunity to give each personal attention. It is not easy, but the child that attention don't need much to draw a little bit together, plays with a LEGO set, to cuddle.

michell
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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:32 pm

There is no time to be lazy and depressed, because all the time you need someone to take care of. This can be considered both an advantage and disadvantage. Even loving each other children sometimes fuss and fight. Especially boys — and there is always enough. It's hard to resist, but you have not seen brothers and sisters that never fight.

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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:33 pm

Different tastes in food, for example. Not always to please everyone with one dish. You have to Dodge.
Collective ownership of almost everything, try way, something my only for yourself — starting from a slice of mango to new pencils. Who found and sneakers. And someone will certainly find it. :lol:

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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:50 pm

Noisy. Quiet only at night when everyone is asleep — and then not for long. Silence becomes such a welcome.
More things in the house and more need to take trips. One suitcase for five no longer get off. And once more things, the harder it is and with the procedure and with the Laundry, and folding.


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