big family

mr.natty
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Re: big family

Postby mr.natty » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:28 pm

We need to change the tools to change ourselves . One child can pass each other, like a banner. Two children can be divided, one in each hand. But three? Four? Need to change all their ways of influencing children. So, to change inside.
More strictly you need to set the boundaries of own time. When you have one child and he is sleeping — it's your time. And when the three of them, and one sleeping, and two not? Or two sleeping, and one not? Whose this time then?+
Find the opportunity to give each personal attention. It is not easy, but the child that attention don't need much to draw a little bit together, plays with a LEGO set, to cuddle.

michell
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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:32 pm

There is no time to be lazy and depressed, because all the time you need someone to take care of. This can be considered both an advantage and disadvantage. Even loving each other children sometimes fuss and fight. Especially boys — and there is always enough. It's hard to resist, but you have not seen brothers and sisters that never fight.

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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:33 pm

Different tastes in food, for example. Not always to please everyone with one dish. You have to Dodge.
Collective ownership of almost everything, try way, something my only for yourself — starting from a slice of mango to new pencils. Who found and sneakers. And someone will certainly find it. :lol:

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Re: big family

Postby michell » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:50 pm

Noisy. Quiet only at night when everyone is asleep — and then not for long. Silence becomes such a welcome.
More things in the house and more need to take trips. One suitcase for five no longer get off. And once more things, the harder it is and with the procedure and with the Laundry, and folding.

geoff
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Re: big family

Postby geoff » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:53 pm

Travel is more expensive — tickets, large rooms (in one is not always allowed to settle, sometimes you have to take 2 rooms or one large), you need a large car to rent and so on. It is difficult to be alone for parents. Only if you run away from home, leaving the children with someone. As one large dad — the more children in the house, the less chance that they will be more... well, you know what it is.

geoff
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Re: big family

Postby geoff » Tue Nov 15, 2016 3:55 pm

All the time you need to reboot. What worked with one, not necessarily work with the second. One will be some difficulty with others. No single algorithm education and solutions to all problems.
In a large family claws do not click, as my husband says. Will be time to think if I want a banana, no banana. This is a disadvantage for those who are accustomed to thinking. Or how I used to do something to find out where it put it.

jonm
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Re: big family

Postby jonm » Tue Nov 15, 2016 5:09 pm

Hellow everybody here) Nice to meet you all here. I think that thisis great to have the big family. I mean that in this case you will have the people with whom you can share everything that have happened with you and in your life. I think that this is really great to feel the support of your children and husband all the time. I have five children, that might seem like a lot to you or not. It depends on how big your family was growing up and how big your family is now. I grew up in a family of eight so my family still doesn’t seem that big to me. I think that my family is the light for me , because I am living and doing everything for them and i can not imagine my life without them.

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Re: big family

Postby jonm » Tue Nov 15, 2016 5:11 pm

I think that this is really great to share the time with the people whom you really like and want to share all your life. Family time this is good opportunity to stay more frendly and understand each other in the best way. Being away in an unfamiliar place changes everybody’s routine. There are fewer distractions and more chances to spend time together as a family. No one’s tidying the house or playing computer games – everybody has plenty of time and energy to enjoy each other’s company. Being able to explore new areas, go swimming at the beach or just sit and enjoy a drink together is one of the great joys of having a big family holiday.

jonm
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Re: big family

Postby jonm » Tue Nov 15, 2016 5:13 pm

i LIKE TO SPEND THE TIME WITH THE family, because this is very important for me to looking on their happy faces and enjoy it. Family holidays mean spending time with people who you may not have had the chance to catch up with for a long while. If you have distant cousins, siblings or even parents you’ve been meaning to spend time with, a holiday is a great chance to do it. It’ll also give you a good reason to stay in touch afterwards by exchanging photographs and stories from the trip. I think that thisis very important to support relations even when you are living far away because we all a the parts of one and we all love each other and have many in common.

Tally
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Re: big family

Postby Tally » Tue Nov 15, 2016 5:18 pm

I think that this is nothing better than to spend time wih the children when you are tired and busy , you need to have the free time for the family and i think that this helps you to feel better and reduce stress in your life and improve your emotional health. Having a big family helps you focus on multiple things and avoid stress. There will be multiple distractions and you may be able to divert your attention to several things and keep yourself stress free. Larger the number of people, bigger will be the level of joy and happiness. Most days will assume a festive atmosphere especially when you have young ones at home. THat is why we all need pay a lot of attention on this fact and try to do it all the time when we feel an emotional problems and want to share with somebody.


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