Three traps of loneliness

geoff
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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby geoff » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:54 am

Intrusive behavior of the neighbors and random people, intrigue at work, the controversial nature of some of the relatives are doing their evil thing. And now in all its glory manifests depression symptoms: a person tends to loneliness, unconsciously or deliberately isolating itself from the selfish two-legged irritants. In a depressed state, many of us tend to "go underground", motivating it with the desire to weigh everything, to think alone.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby lenny » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:55 am

But only a few, left alone, get a positive psychological effect, expressed in a sense of calm and serenity. The majority of people instead of relaxation starts in the head the conveyor of repeated digestion of information, memoirs, thoughts, for some reason most often-negative.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby lenny » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:56 am

Memories of troubles and difficulties do not overlap with fresh positive impressions. The longer the arbitrarily declared isolation lasts, the more time to analyze the vile nature of someone from friends or to speculate about someone's secret intent. Moreover, ideas for other leisure activities alone enough to swear.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby markus » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:57 am

Well, if the concerned public will be aware of growing depression standoffish, and forcibly returned to an active life. This way they will better themselves, too, because the presence of a number angry with the society man, every day is worse going in communication, nice spoils the atmosphere in the team.
Bringing a person out of social exclusion is not a matter of a day. Ideally, it is necessary to create a whole program that will work on stress relief and replacement of negative with positive. At first, you can be a listener-vest, but if you see that whining takes a regular nature, learn to stop.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby michell » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:58 am

If the man himself is weary of his depression and not happy being alone, a little be it guardian. But the long game in this role creates the risk that the ward will recklessly use other days its heavy, will surreptitiously manipulate.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby michell » Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:59 am

Helping a person to get out of depression, you do not need to drive him by the hand of his own life. Not from blindness same he treated. To overcome panic attacks help joint active leisure time, humor, positive thinking, mutual and independent thinking on a good forecast. The confidence that everything will be fine in the end, even if it is still unclear how it will happen - this is the way of thinking of a strong person who will not go on the dead-end path of loneliness.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby markus » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:28 am

Opinions about what loneliness is still very different. On the one hand-philosophers in their works paint it as the only state in which a person can know himself as a person. On the other hand, all the heroes of classic and modern books find their happiness only when they find true love. And all these opposites confuse people as soon as they try to understand the benefits and harms of loneliness.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby michell » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:30 am

But it is necessary to begin at first, namely – why people are lonely. Egoists with unbearable character become lonely because of their vices, they are not able to get along with people and interact with them, than repel everyone from themselves. Suffering from inferiority complex – go voluntarily in a free and solitary voyage on the river of life, afraid to hear he doesn't need anyone. And, of course, the modern world with its technology is very conducive to loneliness.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby michell » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:32 am

The people today there is absolutely no need to go out for something to buy or pay for – the Internet can handle it. He same, on a par with watching TV, and becomes the best friend and relation whom. Constant employment and moving too often have a negative impact on the presence of friends. Life circumstances such as divorce, widowhood, conscious choice of absence of family – all this is the cause of loneliness. So, modern people are increasingly alone.

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Re: Three traps of loneliness

Postby geoff » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:33 am

In favor of loneliness put forward a lot of arguments. A person has complete freedom of action, which in the case of marriage or serious relationship ceases. He doesn't need to compromise, to agree with any your decision, it manages your free time just the way he wants, goes on a journey or stays at home. Loneliness is necessary in our realities, the pace of life is too high to withstand it without rest. Sometimes you have to stop and take a breath.


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