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Postby Rick » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:09 pm

Hello everyone, hope you are having good day today. I would like to talk about guests and how to have then. It is the owners of the house who set the tone for the whole evening. If you are cordial and welcoming, the guests will reciprocate. Before the arrival of guests, take a few minutes, relax and tune. Take a deep breath-exhalation, turn on your favorite song, take a sip of wine. Do not make the guests wait. Called - immediately open. Welcome each guest warmly and personally. With a smile. Introduce guests to each other, tell them common topics for conversation: a hobby, recent travel. And what do you think?

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Re: guests

Postby Alex » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:10 pm

It’s a nice guide you got there, allow me to add. There are a number of dangerous topics. In order to avoid disputes and conflicts at the table, it is better not to talk about religion, politics, illness and medicine, the income level of those gathered. Now lets talk about good themes for conversation. First, the very reason for which you gathered guests: birthday, meeting of old friends. Also you can safely talk about: TV projects, films, interesting books that were remembered especially, places that have already visited (cities, museums, parks) or plan to visit.

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Re: guests

Postby Fernando » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:11 pm

Do not criticize friends for being late. It can be dangerous too. They are likely to experience it because of this, and if you criticize it out loud, then in return you get irritation and irony is a protective reaction, everything is logical. Remember about lighting. Soft light at the beginning of the evening and muted later - that's the perfect lighting. The bright light of fluorescent lamps is not what you need today. This is a home party, not a corporate in the office. Turn on the sconce, light the lampshades, do not forget about the candles. Indirect lighting softens the mood and tired faces, but also hides the true age of the sofa. :geek: :geek:

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Re: guests

Postby Johnes007 » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:12 pm

Hi guys! :lol: :lol: As you know, accuracy is the courtesy of kings. Therefore, it is necessary to arrive on time on time. Allowed to be late, but not more than 20 minutes))))) But you do not need to come in advance, so you can catch the last cooking table or host in your home non-holiday clothes))This will bring a lot of awkwardness to you, so it's better to walk a few minutes down the street, but to arrive exactly at the appointed time. Think twice before showing up not in time, make your arrival 100% calculated. That’s all. :roll: :roll:

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Re: guests

Postby RobertKey » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:13 pm

All I hear you guys saying is correct, yet no one told about such important thing as on the eve of the event, you need to call back the invitees and confirm your invitation, as well as specify the number of guests. Do not hide from the guests and the general list of guests, thereby you avoid the clash of irreconcilable enemies or simply not getting on in one company people. It is also better not to mix different companies at one evening, so it's better to divide the celebration of the event, for example, with colleagues and friends for two different days. Thus, you will not get into an embarrassing situation that can arise in a company where there are strangers. In addition, some topics for conversation can be of interest only to a particular group of people, and the rest will be bored.

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Re: guests

Postby David » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:14 pm

You know, if you plan to collect a large company of guests, then their location at the table will have to do to you. The cards with the names of guests, arranged around the devices, will help to avoid fuss and confusion when the guests sit down. In addition, you should carefully consider the neighborhood at the table. Otherwise, even the most thoughtful celebration will not bring pleasure to a person who will get an uninteresting neighbor. In a small company, guests usually choose the place where they will sit, and you do not need to take care of this specifically.

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Re: guests

Postby monsterF » Fri Oct 13, 2017 1:15 pm

I will tell you a secret. What is the biggest obstacle to an easy pastime? In ourselves. Often we have too strict notions of what hospitality is. We think that the main thing is to organize a decent dinner party, we are worried about whether the napkins are enough starched and thus we negate the main purpose of the party - to have fun and relax. If so, then it's time for you to improve your attitude to hospitality. To this hospitality, all these fears and concerns are irrelevant. First of all, shift the focus of your attention to those to whom it should belong: to the guests. I hope my tip was helpful. :)

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Re: guests

Postby Din100 » Sat Oct 14, 2017 11:42 am

If you're having guests everything should be perfect: the table, the songs, the themes for conversations and many other trifles.
Of course you should be relaxed, because it can influence the apmosphere of the party, so you should think about something pleasant and good, but you shouldn't forget about your guests.

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Re: guests

Postby Marion » Tue Oct 17, 2017 11:00 pm

Having guests is a very big responsibility. You should think over about the dishes, prepare them, or order from the restauran, find the songs, may be some games, movies, themes for discussions for your guests not to feel boring. You should do your best to arrange the best party for your guests and to think over about all triffles.

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Re: guests

Postby DavidSt » Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:20 pm

I'm totally agree that these are the owners of the house who set the tone of the party. The owners should be friendly, attentive to their guests, they should try involve all the guests on the party, for them not to be bored. Also the organizators of the party should think over about the scenario of the party.

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