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Adam Levine
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intrigue him

Postby Adam Levine » Mon Jul 04, 2016 3:31 pm

To truly intrigue a guy, you have to make him think you're fascinating and leave him wanting more. You can't put it all out there or make him feel like he has you figured out in the first five minutes or he won't want to get to know you -- or wonder about you when you're not there. Being mysterious may or may not help you get a guy. It all depends on his personality. First get to know him just a little bit before you try this, so that you can decide if it will work on him or not.So how do you create the perfect combination of mystery and excitement that can intrigue any guy?

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Re: intrigue him

Postby DaddyAdam » Tue Jul 05, 2016 9:58 am

Show a bit of interest in him. If you give the guy absolutely nothing to work with, you won't get anything back. He won't be intrigued by you if you give him the cold shoulder and if he feels like you're not interested in him at all whatsoever. So, give him a little smile, a wave, or start a light conversation with him. Flirt just a tiny bit to make him think there's a chance that you like him, but not to make him think that you want him. Just give him enough to leave him thinking about you and wanting to see you again.Use his name when you talk to him, and make a bit of eye contact.Avoid making physical contact when you first talk to him, or you may be coming on too strong.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Richard Hawley » Tue Jul 05, 2016 11:55 am

Let him see you having a great time. If you want to intrigue a guy, then you have to make him feel like he wants to be around you. If you're in his orbit, make sure you're having a great time with your friends, laughing, talking happily, or even dancing, if you're out -- let him think, "There's a cool, fun girl. It would be fun to get to know her better." If he always sees you moping or looking bored or sad, why would he want more of that? Of course, you shouldn't pretend to be fun just to catch his eye, but actually be the kind of girl who is out to have a good time.He should feel like he should be lucky to be in your orbit -- not that you're looking for a guy to make your life complete.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Albert » Tue Jul 05, 2016 2:04 pm

Don't always be available. If you're getting to know the guy a bit and he wants to hang out, you should be excited about it, but not act like your schedule is wide open. Keep him guessing. Maybe you have a host of other exciting dates lined up. Maybe you have some fun weekend plans with your girlfriends. Maybe you like to spend Friday nights by yourself, translating Latvian poetry into English. He shouldn't know exactly what you're up at all times -- just knowing that you're not always free will make him think that he should cherish his time with you and that you're a dynamic person with a lot going on.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Peter Parker » Wed Jul 06, 2016 8:33 am

Keep your options open. If you've started casually dating the guy or just talking to him a lot, you don't have to let him know how much you like him right away. Make him feel special enough to keep wanting to see you, but don't tell him he's the only guy in your life or that you want to be his girlfriend ASAP. Make him figure out that he should ask you to be his girlfriend (if that's what you want) instead of letting him know that he's the only one. This doesn't mean you have to be deceptive -- you should just stay open to all of the opportunities around you.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Argo » Wed Jul 06, 2016 8:41 am

You need to spend time with him and try persuade him that you are the only man whom he need. If you want to intrigue a guy, then you have to make him feel like he wants to be around you. If you're in his orbit :lol: :lol: :lol: , make sure you are having a great time with your friends, laughing, talking happily, or even dancing :) :) He should feel like he should be lucky to be in your orbit -- not that you are looking for a guy to make your life complete. If you are getting to know the guy a bit and he wants to hang out, you should be excited about it, but not act like your schedule is wide open. Keep him guessing. Maybe you have a host of other exciting dates lined up. Maybe you have some fun weekend plans with your friends , this is the best way to intrigue him.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Mark007 » Wed Jul 06, 2016 10:04 am

Don't come on too strong. Playing hard to get can go a long way in intriguing the guy. Even if you think he's the one, you shouldn't throw yourself all over him, tell him how hot he is, or compliment him constantly. Most guys like to be kept on their toes; if you want him to think that you're worth it, then let him see that the chase is never over. And heck, many successful married couples say that the key to their long-lasting love is the feeling that the chase is never really over; if you want to intrigue the guy, then you shouldn't lay it all out on the line in the first five minutes. This doesn't mean you should be deceptive or manipulate the guy; you should just hold back from telling him you love love love love him right away, or you'll scare him off instead of intrigue him.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Steven Tyler » Wed Jul 06, 2016 7:29 pm

It goes without saying: if you start hooking up, don't give it all up right away, either. Make him wait and see that you're worth it. If you get down on the first night, he'll have less incentive to keep courting you.Don't tell him everything about yourself. If you want to intrigue the guy, then you can't make him think that he knows exactly who you are after your first conversation. Reveal who you are little by little and let him see that you're more than just one thing. Let him see your artistic side by talking about your poetry one time and then show off your sports knowledge by talking about who you think is going to win the Super Bowl the next time you see him. Don't give him your personal biography, either; let him figure out that you spent six months in India or were born in Alaska little by little instead of telling him every little thing right away.

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Natan Scot » Wed Jul 13, 2016 10:46 am

Ahaha, i haven't done it for a ong time, cause my relations are rather firm, but i did it before and my so to say golden rule was - Don't always be available. If you're getting to know the guy a bit and he wants to hang out, you should be excited about it, but not act like your schedule is wide open. Keep him guessing. Maybe you have a host of other exciting dates lined up. Maybe you have some fun weekend plans with your friends. I used it almost everytime when i wanted a guy pay more attention to me and it really helped, you know. i was his attention)

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Re: intrigue him

Postby Argo » Wed Jul 13, 2016 3:31 pm

If you're getting to know the guy a bit and he wants to hang out, you should be excited about it, but not act like your schedule is wide open. Keep him guessing. Maybe you have a host of other exciting dates lined up. Don't call him all the time, and don't pick up the phone every time he calls or text him back within five minutes whenever you hear from him, either. Let him see that you have a busy schedule, not that you're sitting around and waiting for a call from him. :D If you have started casually dating the guy or just talking to him a lot, you don't have to let him know how much you like him right away. Make him feel special enough to keep wanting to see you


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