admit your mistakes

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Steven Tyler
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admit your mistakes

Postby Steven Tyler » Mon Jul 04, 2016 6:57 pm

Admitting you made a mistake can be a challenge if you want to avoid "losing face". However, in the eyes of other people, a person who can admit to mistakes and move on from them is more likely to garner respect than someone who blusters and pretends they weren't responsible. Ultimately, continued refusal to face up to being wrong or causing a problem can take a toll on your reputation, relationships, and your work or professional life.As difficult as it may seem if you're not already used to admitting to mistakes, this skill can liberate you and allow you and others to move on to better relationships and outcomes. Get ready to own your errors! What are your ways to admit mistakes?

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby DaddyAdam » Tue Jul 05, 2016 10:12 am

Consider your feelings when you make a mistake. If you're a perfectionist or someone with an overactive internal critic, making mistakes can absolutely terrify you and cause you to believe that you have to cover them up or foist the blame elsewhere. Yet, these actions cause their own problems and end up making the mistake worse or even have greater ramifications than had you faced the mistake openly.When you make a mistake, your internal critic goes into overdrive, faulting everything you do and making the whole mistake seem much worse than it actually is. You think purely in negatives about the mistake.

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Richard Hawley » Tue Jul 05, 2016 12:22 pm

Following a mistake, you tend to put yourself down, calling yourself stupid, clueless, dumb and hopeless. You may even convince yourself that "I'll never get this right", thereby barring any possibility of learning.Mistakes in any area cause you to cease to trust your own ideas or thoughts in that area and to second-guess the things you do and decisions or choices you make.You tell yourself that the mistake "must never happen again", treating the past as a warning to the future that stifles growth and innovation, causing you to stop taking reasonable risks to further your career, studies, life plans, etc. Soon, you're an irritable hermit who repeats only the actions that you know won't result in "mistakes".

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Albert » Tue Jul 05, 2016 2:10 pm

Re-envision your idea of what it means to make mistakes. First up, mistakes are going to happen and they're going to keep happening even after you've "learned your lesson". Life is very generous with mistakes, just as it's very generous with learning opportunities, love and chance of fulfillment if you choose to take them. Second, mistakes teach us what we're capable of through showing us what doesn't work. Remember Edison's 10,000 attempts at getting a light bulb to work when you feel like calling your efforts a mistake. Third, quite a large number of mistakes have resulted in creations and inventions of a scientific, business, architectural, creative, or other nature. Indeed, mistakes can even reveal breakthroughs in self-understanding. Mistakes have their place in life.

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Argo » Wed Jul 06, 2016 8:06 am

It can be difficult for people who are sure thay are right all the time and only their opinion has place to live. :x :x You need realize that all people make some mistakes and you also do some. One of the best and most effective responses to making a mistake is to take responsibility for having made it, especially where it upsets, harms or disturbs other people. :roll: :roll: And owning your mistakes is also good for mistakes that simply bother your own sense of who you are striving to be, so as to avoid the blame game. Do not try to run away from the mistake or it will continue to chase you. Instead of calling yourself a whole bunch of negative names, realize that while you could have done more considerately than you did, perhaps mitigating factors such as tiredness, hunger, a sense of urgency, a desire to please.

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Peter Parker » Wed Jul 06, 2016 9:09 am

Own your mistakes. One of the best and most effective responses to making a mistake is to take responsibility for having made it, especially where it upsets, harms or disturbs other people. And owning your mistakes is also good for mistakes that simply bother your own sense of who you are striving to be, so as to avoid the blame game. Don't try to run away from the mistake or it will continue to chase you.Make amends. This isn't as hard as it seems unless pride is holding you back. See the second part of this article below for how to admit a mistake to a particular person.

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Mark007 » Wed Jul 06, 2016 10:09 am

Accept your behavior but don't put yourself down. Instead of calling yourself a whole bunch of negative names, realize that while you could have done better/differently/more considerately than you did, perhaps mitigating factors such as tiredness, hunger, a sense of urgency, a desire to please, etc. overtook your more balanced self. Concentrate on how to deal with the underlying reason rather than on belittling your whole self.For example, you could tell yourself something like: "In future, I could ensure I've eaten/slept/got hold of all the facts/called a friend, etc. before making a difficult decision/reaching a conclusion/creating the work, etc."

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Adam Levine » Fri Jul 08, 2016 4:19 pm

If you screwed up - admit it. That is what adult man do. Nothing is wrong with. If you were right - fight for what you believe is right. Do not know how to admit your mistakes? Well just try to talk to a person which you have insulted. Do not hold a grudge. In other words, do not take too long to admit to your mistakes. The guy might not have been the one and leave you. He ca not wait any longer! So do not take forever. Reply! And it would be even better if you say - hey i am sorry - but do it in person please. Do not be one of those guys who sends a "sorry" message

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Natan Scot » Mon Jul 11, 2016 11:58 am

I am more than sure that admitting mistakes is very important. i do not say that you have be like a doll and all the time say: "Yes, I am sorry, it was just my fault". i am talking alnly about those occasions when you really were not right, you see. it is normal to make mistakes but if you have relations, then it is a certain responsibiity. and if you are responsible, then have courage to take responsibiity for mischiefs as well. it will be only good for your relations. cause your partner will understand that he has reationships with an adult and not a small kid)

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Re: admit your mistakes

Postby Argo » Wed Jul 13, 2016 3:44 pm

Don’t try to weasel out of it, and don’t look around wildly for someone else to blame. Even if your failure came about because someone let you down, you’re ultimately responsible for the projects under your authority. Accept the consequences, It is hard, I know, but sometimes you have to bite the bullet and take your lumps. Few actions come without any consequences at all; be prepared to embrace whatever befalls you as a result of the mistakes you’ve made. Taking responsibility means being prepared to clean up the mess, which means you need a plan. You should have a clear idea of what went wrong and how you can fix it — and how you can avoid it in the future.


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