Ben_Roar wrote: when you start to feel that you do not have any mutual goals any more
Ben , you were always a serious and mature guy, as I see by this post - and by dozen of others) You are always speaking about the goals:) not all the marriages are that "goal oriented". If it all would base simply on the goals, it would rather be a working contract, or something)Some people are getting married just because they think it will benefit their relations somehow. That is what I really doubt about, actually) The marriages, and the relations in general, usually over long before you even start to think they are over. It is a subtitle process, that runs deep under the everyday routine. And one day you start to notice, how much it had done imperceptibly, over time.