well, i know that there are people who hate oneiness and cannot really deal with it But you have to be sometimes alone. i even think that it is very useful for us to feel aone. sometimes there such situations, when we have to be aone, to think about different things and just pay some attention to yourself, do not be afraid of it, charish lineliness
I feel lonely right now, but not lonely at all, you know I have just broken up with my boyfriend, I am so dosappointed, I think I am forevr alone But hopefully, I have close people who support me. So I think you are also not so lonely, as you think I am sure, you have someone who you can trust and spend a lot of time.
I guess that it is not very difficult to deal with lonelyness, you see You even do not have to take great pains Just meet your friend as often, as it is poddible, go for a walk with them, have fun, communicate in the social web-sites. You can not think you are lonely, if you do not have any boyfriend. Remember you have other people who love you and care about you
i do not know what it is like to be alone but i would never like to be in your shoes. sorry i did not want to upset you.actually i do not believe that you are alone. you should have some friend, maybe partner or relatives. the problem is just in your head, you concentrate too much on the thought hat you are alone and do not notice that there are so many people who worry about your every minute of your life. i do not know what is your situation but i hope that i am right and you would notice their attention and support. i like being surrounded by other people. i think that you just have to forget that you are alone.
In our fast growing word more and more people feel lonely. I also have had such a sad period in my life when everything looked grey for me. It happened when I broke up with my boyfriend, the whole world ended for me, I want neither see nor communicate with anybody. But after one week of depression I decided to fight my loneliness and start going out with my friends who supported me a lot
I think even if a person has a lot of friends and if he has boyfriend anyway he will feel lonely. Because actually in our life we are alone we have coem to this world alone and we will leave it alone. I know that feeling to feel lonely. But you have to talk to your true friends, to distrct yourself somehow not to feel it again.
Jeffrey Wilson wrote:But you have to talk to your true friends, to distract yourself somehow not to feel it again.
It does make a pretty sad picture of our life, doesnt it?:) I mean - if even our friends and relatives cannot banish that feeling of the loneliness from our hears - who can? I am sure many people would answer - God. But that is a specific topic - and here everything is different for everyone. I think that we just have to deal with it - to accept this fact like the fact of our own breathing. And then we are not going to be lonely any more. this feeling is an illusion and the reality in the same time.. You cannot distinct the loneliness from its absence, as you cannot put the straight line between the day and the night.
Oh, there are a lot of ways to deal with your loneliness But everything depends on person's charachter and attitude to his life Some people even whily being very busy, working a lot can not think about their loneliness, they always think about it. But other people can just make themselves forget about this problem
Andreas_Maroon wrote:I am sure many people would answer - God.
That is an answer for some people - the people who are leaving the society to live alone by themselves or in the monastery. I was always wondering if they do actually find there the things they are looking for. .I think yes - because there are not many news about the suicides in the monasteries - and not many news about the people who would come back after many years of life in the monastery.. Though I think this would be really too much for me. If I would have to fight loneliness now for some reason - i would choose more traditional ways - including friends and all that kind of stuff. I am glad I do not feel this stuff right now, tohugh.
Paul_O wrote: I am glad I do not feel this stuff right now, tohugh.
Me too. Besides -I really do not need many people to be around to make myself feel comfortable and not lonely. Even more than that - sometimes when I am completely alone - even for a long period of time - I can feel that I am not alone really. Because I know there are lot of people who are thinking of me and who do care of me. I like to make sudden calls to my friends and parents as well. I know that these calls make them feel the same way as I do - they do know that wherever I would be - I do keep them in my heart and mind. That is a wonderful feeling.
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