Of course if I were in such situation, or in such shoes for example, I would do it because it is just children and they need to be loved. I think that children exactly make us happy and they exactly make our life more bright, they like sunshine that every day makes us smile. I am so proud of being father. And it is important to remember that if you are a father you should be a great example for your small babies, you should be a great example during the whole life, because children are our continuity and we should be worthy . And it doesn't matter what gender, what kind or what problems you have with them
If you are not sure how the child prefers to communicate, you may try auditory, visual, and tactile cues. You may try repeating certain words or phrases to help calm the child down if she is acting up. Singing these phrases in a low voice, for example, singing “be quiet please”, can help to soothe the child. You can also try clapping, whistling, and humming as a way to quiet down the child. You can also use visual cues to calm the child and teach the child how to behave in public. You may draw images to represent calm and quiet and show the child these draws to get her attention. Over time, she may understand that certain images mean certain things, from being quiet to going to the bathroom to getting ready for bed.
sometimes it may be really very hard to take care of the child who is with special needs, but i think that you would be really able to do it. i think that you would succeed . the first thing that you have to know that your child is the same as all the children round and i am sure that he would never be different for yo. it is your child and you would live him all the time, you just do not have to concentrate on the thing that he is with the special needs. you have to be very patient because it is not easy at all to take care of such children but i am sure that you would succeed in it. good luck and do not worry about it.
The society that is based on the principles of Christianity and humanist failed to give answers on these questions. It will be rude to say.. But it is our good that people with mental diseases (in the most cases at least) do not have kids.. else way we would have to look for the answer in the works and methods of Hitler and Mengele. For now all we can do - is to make these poor people feel themselves happy, even in the state that they exist in. This couple that I was speaking about, I really do admire them, but, as I said, I would never want to be on their place.
Another difficulty on the path to happiness is our misconception that happiness is difficult to achieve. We are generally accustomed to think that it is necessary to deserve the good, and that which is given easily does not cost anything. Even the expression is such - "the suffered happiness". Often, instead of becoming really happy, we begin to gain this happiness by inventing obstacles and sufferings on an equal place. We do not believe in happiness if it comes to us. We consider that this is what has been gained, extracted, earned, and never that which has been easily and joyfully in our hands. How, after all, be happy? 1
But to support their opinion that external circumstances prevented them from achieving some success or causing them to fail may turn out to be a very good decision, since it is to a solidary person they will want to listen and follow his advice to correct the situation. And then there are people who are morally very weak, and they can not see their fault in all their failures, this approach to life will simply break them. Especially it will be harmful to their already low self-esteem, which in case of their critical attitude will go down even lower, which in turn will make them even less adapted to all sorts of difficulties and in general to life.
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