Insularity

Greg
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Re: Insularity

Postby Greg » Tue Jul 04, 2017 5:51 pm

Best wishes for each of you here today) how are you feeling today? I think that it almost happened with everyone, moreover I can say that I was in similar situation and what can I say you. It is right that we need to give more opportunities to speak the child's behalf, not crushing parental authority. In conversations with the children never to say that the isolation it is a serious problem. In communication is necessary to emphasize that the fear it's just the unexplored possibilities.i think that in case with insularity it would be good.

Elroy3
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Re: Insularity

Postby Elroy3 » Tue Jul 11, 2017 8:25 am

Although I am not the qualified child's psychologist, I have something on my mind to assure you in. this is worthless of trying to persuade the kid to communicate if he does not want to... first of all, you have to be pretty wise and cheerful to the guy and tell teachers to do the same. this is vital not to push hard, because this may have the opposite effect!!! not the best idea also to tell that "you are a weirdo, you have to go and see the psychologist, i will bring you there immediately!" in my personal opinion, this is gonna be much better just to show your sincere love and ability to deal with some personal hesitations

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Re: Insularity

Postby Stewart » Wed Sep 20, 2017 10:10 am

Hey people. As I mentioned too much time evertyting in parent's hands, everything our children get is going from parents from their influence on children. I support such an idea that we need to give more opportunities to speak the child's behalf, not crushing parental authority. In conversations with the children never to say that the isolation it is a serious problem. In communication is necessary to emphasize that the fear it's just the unexplored possibilities. And you know insularity happens when the child does not have the person whom can say everything about him

DavidSt
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Re: Insularity

Postby DavidSt » Sat Oct 28, 2017 10:33 am

Children in his age like to communicate with othe people, friends. I think it is a great problem. Perhaps something happend with him and it is the result of that event. You shouldn't wait. Try to talk to him for you to understand the reason of his behavior, if not, than I think it is important for you to apply to a psychologist so he could help you and your son.

Adam31
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Re: Insularity

Postby Adam31 » Sat Nov 11, 2017 9:19 pm

I think you have a huge problem, if your boy was an open child earlier, than his behavior may show that someone could hurt him. Of course, I am not a psycologist and I can't tell you the reason of your son's behaviour, but the only thing that you should do for sure is not just sit and wait, but to apply for help. I think that your son should talk with a psycologist.

Edgar
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Re: Insularity

Postby Edgar » Thu Nov 16, 2017 10:28 pm

I think, that you have a very serious problem. I think that there was a reason for such behavior of your son. I don't think that you should only wait untill he would communicate with ithers. As for me, I think that you should apply to a psycologist to help your son. He may have a great problem and if you wouldn't solve it, than there can be very bad consecuences.

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Re: Insularity

Postby Kane » Wed Dec 06, 2017 9:51 pm

I think that you've got a real problem. If to be honest, I can't give you a proper advise. But I think that you've got a very serious problem and you can't wait any longer. I think that you should apply for help to a speciallist. I think that something had happened to your son and he shrinked. Don't wait and apply for help.

George86
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Re: Insularity

Postby George86 » Wed Jan 10, 2018 12:07 pm

I am against computer games in such small age, to my mind all these computer games for children were created just for parents who want to spend much time without their chileren. It is not right because at all after playing computer games all time your baby will feel alone and insularity is coming here. I think that if you are a good father you should not allow all these gadgets for your baby in such a small period. I mean young period. It would be really available to do it after twelve years for example. Yeah you should pay much more attention to your baby in this period.

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Re: Insularity

Postby Dorian » Wed Jan 10, 2018 1:45 pm

I think that you shouldn't wait and hope that he'll talk to you one day, I think that he had some kind of trauma. I don't know what it was, but I think that for him it was pretty serious and I think that the best way out for you is to consult a children's psychiater. I think that you should sign your chield for him to get to know the reason of such behaviour.

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Mr.Albert
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Re: Insularity

Postby Mr.Albert » Thu Feb 15, 2018 9:44 am

Hi, OP! I think you need to consul a psychologist. I think only a specialist will tell you whether your son's behaviour is ok or not. Maybe, he is such a kind of person who doesn't need other people. However, it seems quite strange that he doesn't want to communicate with other people except his sister. Maybe, he behaves in such a way as someone has offended him, who knows...


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