you know I have already told here what i think about it but of course it is not too hard for me to tell what i think about it one more time, well i can tell you that you shall not thnk about it too much, you shall look at it naturally , if you want your child to sleep with you and you think that it is better then you shall do it, if you have some doubts about it then i think that it is better not to start it because it would be rather hard for your child to strat sleeping alone and i think that you know what i am talking about . but of course it is your choice and i think that i am not able to make some decisions for you.
i think that i have already mentioned that i am not for this idea nad i think that it is not good. of course I know that maybe for you it would be a problem and everything like that but on the other hand i can tell you that it is better because after you will not have any problems, i know that a lot of parents like sleeping with their children and the tell that it is very comfortable but then your child would have stress because it will be hard for him or hr to sleep alone i know that maybe i am not right and all children are different but it is my own opinion about it. but of course if you think that it is better than why not.
You are right, it is really really so, and therefore, if you have the interest in my personal life experience I will tell you the next fact... as any other happy father I have the excitement when the little body comes to me in the middle of the night and tries to lay down and therefore he is experiencing some kind of the urgent need to stay near me, I can not refuse on letting him go way. Of course, I am happy to hold him under h warm blanket next to me and surely if there is going to be some nightmare, I will comfort my little lovely half. it is normal until the time when they are growing up.
As for me, I think that it's just the choise of the parents. It is more comfortable for parents when children are little and there is a need to feed them their children at night. But than, when the need disappears, parents just can't to break off their children to sleep alone. So it turns that it can take place for several years.
To tell you the truth, I am also very interrested in the answer to this question. My daughter also sleep with us. And we don't know how to teach her to sleep in her own bed. Every time we try to put her in her bed, she wakes up and start crying. But I think that the only solution is do it every night for her to get used to it, and then, as a result she would sleep in her own bed.
Co-sleeping is often a wonderful bonding experience for new babies and their parents. However, co-sleeping must come to an end at some point. Here are several steps that will guide you through the process of weaning your child from sleeping in your bed. Talk to your baby about the transition. Read him books about babies and children who sleep through the night. Talk about how happy it makes Mommy and Daddy when he sleeps until morning. Make a point to emphasize that daytime is for playing and having fun, while nighttime is for sleeping and relaxing. Remember to reinforce every little step he makes with praise. Place a mattress or crib right next to your bed. If possible, use an elevated baby crib that can turn into a daybed. It is best if the crib is the same height as your mattress. If using a mattress, place it on the floor next to your bed, as it would be dangerous to place your baby on a bed if she is old enough to roll.
Many toddlers feel secure and happy sleeping near their parents, but co-sleeping cannot last forever. Eventually, you’ll want your child to sleep in his or her own bed. Scroll down to Step 1 to make the transition as smooth as possible. Choose the right time. Remember that it’s easier to teach a younger child to sleep alone than it is to change an older child’s habits, so consider starting as soon as you feel ready. Ideally, though, you’ll also want to move your child to his or her own bed during a relatively peaceful and uncomplicated time – not when your schedule is crazy or when your toddler is dealing with any other major changes.
I don't have anything bad towards sleeping together with parents but I think that it should be until some certain age of your baby. sleeping together is good for children because they feel comfortable themselves near their parents and it reduces their fear of something. Firstly to wean your baby you should remember that it must be not at once, it should be a continuous period and it is right to choose the right time. Remember that it’s easier to teach a younger child to sleep alone than it is to change an older child’s habits, so consider starting as soon as you feel ready.
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